Jumat, 24 Juni 2011

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Breaking news: A lebanese immigrant is hungry. (the immigrant’s name is kept secret to avoid any embarras and because he doesn’t want to let his mother know that he’s a fan of what she cooks)


I am a lebanese immigrant. It’s been 8 months since I am here in Paris. Yesterday was the first time when i died for getting something called : Lebanese Food.
I hope that every lebanese reading this post is aware of the big chance he has to eat whenever he wants any lebanese food he wants.
Kebbe bel sayniyeh, , kebbit batata, kebbe nayye, kebbe 2ras, and I am sure that everyone has a different type of kebbe in his village. Shawarma, fatte, rez 3a djej, labne mtawwame, hommos awarma, taboule, fatoush..and I can count till tomorrow.





Meelak, Head of a sheep, guts, cow’s tongue…don’t believe me, I am kidding :p
Don’t forget the lebanese sweets and here i’ll only talk about the mighty “Knefeh bi jeben”



Let’s say it frankly, there’s no diversified cuisine like the lebanese one in the world. Ok i understand people saying “La cuisine française raffinée” but it’s also nice to be full after we finish our lunch.


For every lebanese reading this post, I ask you to benefit from every second where you have the choice to eat lebanese food. I know that there are a lot of lebanese restaurant’s here in Paris and in all the immigration countries but I don’t want to eat a Chawarma at 15 euros or some 4 Raqaqat (sort of cheese rolls) at 5 euros and even if i forget about money, there’s no food like the one that is house made…and better that this there’s no food better than my mom’s food.






The Reasons Why Women Get As Angry

 

I’m sure now you probably know we are all angry, very angry and sometimes uncontrollable. What you may not understand why we allow ourselves to become so angry when we do that sometimes.


The first reason for the uncontrollable anger frustration, and frustration that often repeated.
Now we are all frustrated with varying degrees of experience, but think about half, if something happens, why must you always angry? You have to do something about, rather than thinking furiously.
If the first time that an effort is frustrating, again, why would you respond to your anger.
So you have the reason, you will benefit from this knowledge?
Do you feel for others?
If you no feeling for others, you will notice that you have an uncontrollable rage and you feel like there is nothing wrong.
If you want your anger under control, you only are able to help other people, not their weaknesses room for it. You can not expect that everything is always in your own way. If not like, but if not, not sad or angry. And to refuse to forgive another person or the point of feeling.
Voltage
Watch out for them. If your stress is too high, you will easily be frustrated at the point of anger.
If you feel that you are always angry too often a sign that you need to get rid of some of your stress.
There are many ways to do this. Of daily meditation on an aromatherapy bath, online courses, there are many ways to relieve your stress and learn how it is done.
A bonus Quick Tip: Talk to someone about the problem, you just need to talk more of the best ways to see the situation.
By solving these three problems, you will begin your anger under control. Many times poor people do not get what they need from anger-management techniques. However, if you start applying these tips, you will now be more controlled.

The Angry Run! Did you ever hit the road for an Angry Run?


 
You know, the run you have when you're really pissed off about something or angry angry angry with someone? The run that get's all the anger out? That's the run I mean.

Last Tuesday I had one of those Angry Runs. I was completely pissed off about something (I will spare you the details...). 'Ready to punch someone' pissed off. But I figured punching someone wasn't really an option (not exactly worth going to jail for...), so I went out there for my scheduled run instead. And totally killed it! I was supposed to do an easy 5 mile run. Instead I kicked it into gear and just went for it. After two miles I felt a bit better and got into an easier pace.

And the best thing: after my Angry Run, all the anger was gone. I wasn't angry anymore...at all. Peace and quiet. Total serenity. Ohmmmmmmmm...

Who needs therapy (or anger management classes for that matter) when the road is open for an Angry Run?
I already posted this question on my Facebook-page, but I would like to know what you think!
Did you ever hit the road for an Angry Run? When is the last time you went out there for an Angry Run? Do Angry Runs work for you (to get the anger out)?

Free Writing: Being Angry

 
Being really really angry is an emotion and is totally normal! Most of the time you can take a deep breath and count to ten.  Other times, something might happen and you lose it.  Your task this week is to write about a time when you were angry.
What happened?  Who was there?  How did it happen?  Why did you become angry?  How did you get over it?

Mrs Angry: Complaints about presenter Cerrie Burnell and her ‘frightening’ missing hand!

 http://primetime.unrealitytv.co.uk/mrs-angry-complaints-about-presenter-cerrie-burnell-and-her-%E2%80%98frightening%E2%80%99-missing-hand/

Without doubt, the fact that Cerrie Burnell  – who has a deformed arm and is missing a hand – has prompted complaints to be made to the BBC claiming that she’s “frightening” children is SO ridiculous, it’s hard to find sufficient adjectives; ludicrous, ridiculous, preposterous, absurd… I could go on ad infinitum; the whole thing is truly pathetic but perhaps the most fitting might be ‘outrageous’.
cerrie burnell
Cerrie, who co-presents Cbeebies ‘Do And Discover’ with Alex Winters, has been accused of causing young children “sleep problems” – one assumes in the form of nightmares – and apparently, parents find it unpalatable to have to discuss disability with their children “before they are ready to hear it” according to the BBC news website.
Well boohoo and tough t*t! Guess what? Not everyone’s born ‘perfect’. Does it make them lesser people? No. Does the fact that some people feel the need to negatively comment on it make them lesser people? Hell yes…
Do these same people cover their children’s eyes if they see someone in a wheelchair on the street or maybe they step around someone with a prosthetic leg or cross the road if they see someone with facial burns? I’m horribly afraid they just might.
What the hell is wrong with these people? Here are a few samples of some of the comments made on various forums around the net about this issue…
“Is it just me, or does anyone else think the new woman presenter on Cbeebies (Cerrie Burnell) may scare the kids because of her disability?”
I wish it was just you, you bigoted freak, but unfortunately, it isn’t just you; there are other likeminded morons around…
“I didn’t want to let my children watch the filler bits on the bedtime hour last night because I know it would have played on my eldest daughter’s mind and possibly caused sleep problems… and yes, this is a serious post.”
Well you wanna hope then Mr I’m A Pillock And Proud To Be So that you never have an accident involving your hand and a chainsaw because presumably, that would mark the end of your ever being able to see your child ever again. Imagine her horror at seeing someone with a missing hand in real life! She’d never sleep again.
Other comments on forums are even advocating that the BBC only employed Cerrie to get Brownie points for having employed the ‘token’ disabled person, in much the same way many programmes are accused of having the token black person or the token gay person.
This, the ‘PC set’, are calling “positive discrimination.” In other words, they only hired her because she’s got this ‘problem’ however, are these people aware that Cerrie has previously achieved success as an actress, both in theatre and on TV? I guess not. But like all narrow minded bigots, they themselves cannot see past a disability so assume we are all equally as shallow.
Fortunately, in the net forums I’ve seen, the vast majority of comments have offered nothing but support to and for Cerrie, who many describe as “lovely” and “talented” and indeed she is both.
Sue Stokes from the charity ‘Reach’ has said the charity was appalled by the negative reaction to Cerrie’s disability. On the BBC website, she’s quoted as saying:
“We are appalled that parents are talking on behalf of their children.
“Children don’t notice the differences. The parents need to think about how they would feel if it were their child born without an arm.
“It is great for children with disabilities to see people like them on the television.”
I suspect Ms Reach that these are the people who would think “bucket, water and plastic bag needed” were they to have a child who was born with a disability like Cerrie’s, much as they probably would feel about the ‘runt’ in a litter of kittens.
So… NEWSFLASH complainants… people with disabilities aren’t lepers, it’s not catching and they aren’t criminals or some kind of underclass so how dare you narrow minded, self-absorbed, probable Aryan race fans have the audacity to claim that someone with a – let’s face it, exceptionally slight disability in terms of what some disabilities are – is frightening your children and shouldn’t be seen on TV??
You are – thank God – in the minority and what should be keeping your kids awake at night is the fact that they were born to you and not somebody who is worthy of the precious oxygen that you’re taking up.
So let’s hear what the infinitely decent and intelligent Cerrie had to say about it all. And who, I might add, responded with equanimity and magnanimity that simply proves she’s a very lovely woman and in a class way above those who’ve seen fit to say such pathetic and insulting things about her…
On the BBC website, in response to these negative comments about her arm, Cerrie is quoted as saying that, “She doesn’t take this personally but these kind of comments highlight the prejudice that disabled people face.
Cerrie then added, “Children come up to me in the street every day and say ‘What’s that?’ I wouldn’t say they’re frightened but certainly they’re inquisitive.
“I would always take the time to explain to a child. All they want is an explanation. They want to know ‘What’s that?’ and ‘What’s happened?’ and ‘Why are you different?’ And then they will move on.
“I’d never comment on anyone’s parenting or the time for them to have a discussion with their child about disabilities.
“It’s a totally personal thing and people have to do it when they feel comfortable to do it. But I would just hope that, I guess, me being on CBeebies would present an opportunity for them to do that in the comfort of their own home.”
I’d make that “in the comfort of their own stalag” Cerrie, but you’re clearly a nicer person than me.

One angry teacher, many disfunctional relationships


http://aitken4eastern.com/wp/2011/04/736/
On the doors tonight I met a very angry teacher, angry not just with the local SNP/Libdem administration for their ineptitude and lack of leadership, (“lightweights unable to make decisions” was his description), but at the Concordat which he said has destroyed the relationship between central and Local Government rather than improve it.
I agree with him.  The Concordat has brought Local Government significant additional responsibilities but serious reductions in cash  Because the Concordat was tied into single outcome agreements, in that they were how the Concordat was “proven” to be a reality, and they were in turn tied into the Council Tax Freeze, (i.e. any Local Authority that  didn’t sign one didn’t get the little cash that was on offer to freeze the Council Tax), this was not  a less centralised relationship but one both driven by central control and destroyed buy a lack of cash to deliver on what was insisted upon to get agreement.
The difference Scottish Labour will make is that our Council Tax freeze will be properly funded, avoiding back door rises in other services to cover and will not be so centralised as to render Local Government virtually unable to act on its democratic mandates and delivery its services in a way that met its local needs.
The relationship between central and local Government needs to be built on parity of esteem, trust and real devolution of power beyond Holyrood and even beyond Council Chambers so we make the right decisions not just for but with our communities . That won’t happen overnight but it’s a journey that needs to begin now or, as the angry teacher understood, we will all struggle to cope in what are tough time ahead.

Mother vs Me

http://nodont-speak.blogspot.com/2008/05/why-am-i-not-like-my-mother.html

I may take after my mother in looks but I'm the total opposite when it comes to the others. Here are just some of the examples that show stark differences between us.

Whereas mother would bleach, soak in detergent and boil her dirty kitchen rags after just a few days of use. I on the other hand would use and reuse my kitchen rags until each turns into an unrecognisable yucky, gooey mass of blob before I decided that they're just to eeky to handle and I'd simply toss them out.

When doing the washing mother would take care to sort dirty laundry into categories of tops, undergarments, pants, whites or colours before soaking them into a basin-load of water followed by washing each piece manually by hand before finally loading them into the washer for further rinsing and spinning.

But I without a single thought would simply dump the whole load into the washer not really caring whether they are thoroughly clean or that some would come out still a little bit stained or soiled. For all I care they've gone thru the wash, rinse and spin cycle. So that's clean enough for me. No need to waste my time and energy to do the gritty nitty work. That's what machines are invented for, isn't it? To make our life easier.


Besides, what's the point of having them spotlessly clean when the next day or few days later you're gonna wear and make them dirty again. So really, what's the point? A sheer waste of time and energy, I'd tell her. I have better things to do you know with my time. No way am I gonna make the washer redundant. If mother hear me use this argument, she'd immediately throw in my face the big 'L' label. Yeah I know but I'd always defend myself by saying that I don't mean to be lazy but it's just that unlike her, I wasn't born with her will and stamina. So really, it's not my fault then, is it?



That's the very reason why I always admire her strength and determination. Just how did she do it? She'd cook every single day most times twice a day. She'd mop the whole floor of our 2-storey detached house at least twice daily. Don't even talk about the kitchen floor where she'd mop it many times over after every meal/cooking time.


Me? Oh, you don't want to know. The floor of my one-storey home hasn't felt the loving care of Mr Mop for months now. Though I know it's time I gave it a good serious scrub, the thing is there's either not enough time for me to do it, or that I'd abandon the thought of actually doing it when I know I couldn't follow through with the ensuing mopping task. It requires too much energy. So I just let it be. Until someone complains and make a big fuss over it, that is. Otherwise, why bother?



Cooking? Neither do you want to know what I think about cooking. It's in fact one of the most loathed chores among my list of avoid-at-all-cost activities. Almost everybody who knows me know by now how much I hate this
boring and time-consuming task. To me, cooking is simply too boring and involves too much work though most people find it enjoyable, even therapeutic. Huh? Really?

Really, I'm not kidding when I say I'm the total opposite of my mother. Sometimes I do wish that I could be like her and have all the necessary skills to be a good homemaker. But alas, after almost four decades of being me, I'm still like this,
myself.